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Hey Leo,
Hi, my 19 year old best guy friend was recently cheated on and dumped by his 20 year old girlfriend. I am also 34, this guy
is actually a neighbor of mine. He's been so miserable and depressed lately. He always carries a picture of her around
everywhere he goes in his wallet, and he cries almost all the time. I tried helping him in every way so this was only as a last
resort: I said let's have sex. I know this sounds really dumb and almost unbelievable, but I really felt that this was the only
way to help him get over her. He said okay so I went on top of him and started. It was okay for a minute or two, but then he
started to cry again and hugged me tightly and said, "Please don't let me go." Afterwards, he said he felt a lot better and
thanked me, but I feel like I did something wrong. Did I do anything wrong? Do you think this will help him? I really hope that
I didn't screw this up.
And the reason why I feel so guilty is because he grew up knowing me as his hot neighbor. We are like aunt an nephew. I feel like
I helped him, but maybe in the wrong way?
Biblitz replies:
I think it's really sad when a woman in a position of respect/power finds that the only nourishment in her cupboard when
comfort is sought is sex. It tells me the patriarchal porn industry that sees women
only as sex objects for (mostly white) men took another prisoner!
You feel guilty b/c you know you exploited sexually the vulnerable beneficiary in a fiduciary-like trust relationship. You
deliberately violated someone to whom you owed an obligation to be squeaky clean. The good news is you seem to understand you
violated this guy and that it was wrong. You'll now have to end at least that part of the relationship, apologize for it, explain
that it was wrong of you to misuse your position and him in that way and assure him that he was in no way at fault, that he had
every right to expect you to behave like a wise owl and not a pongy old alleycat so desperate for ego gratification that she'll
cross any social boundary/hurt anyone at all w/o compunction to get it.
If you do this sincerely, you may be able to recover the relationship but do so ONLY if you're clear in your own mind that what
you did was very, very wrong and that it will never happen again. If you can't do this, stay away from this guy!
I need a new way to view emotions. I have a bad relationship with emotions but have grown to have a love-hate relationship
with them. I realize their value and am pretty in touch with my own emotions. However I do not want my own emotions to control
me. I'm good with that. However this is causing a problem with my marriage. My wife is pretty emotional, though she's not
overly emotional or dramatic. She does however place a much higher importance on her emotions than I place on emotions in
general, and needs me to place more importance on her emotion than I currently do. My resistance to the whole thing is that
I see what she is asking me to do as giving my control over to her emotions. (I'm sure she would state it differently.) She
says that I need a new way to look at it than in terms of control. How should I be looking at it? I do place importance on
her emotions and do my best to comfort her, reassure her, support her, but I don't want to be 'swept up' in the strong
emotional situations. I guess I do see strong emotions often having negative effects and try to steer clear of those. Am
I being too cautious/scared? What's a better way to look at it other than control? Thanks much!
Biblitz replies:
... Too much info omitted here. What is the substance of all these strong emotions in danger of sweeping you away? What
exactly is upsetting/moving her? Are you listening to her when she raises an issue/conflict and paraphrasing what she says to
indicate you at least 'stand under' understand? If you don't, like any of us, she'll probably up the ante/volume and continue
to DEMONSTRATE her feelings. The only way to make this stop is to acknowledge them. You don't have to resolve them. That's her
job. Her mission is to negotiate openly and honestly with you whatever change she believes is required. You're not required to
comply in every case, certainly, but you are required to listen.
If it's your emotional make-up she's challenging, put a quiet zig-zag in your think bubble and remind her that while you
occasionally enjoy the benefits of her passionate nature that there must be something about your own quiet responses to life's
fandango she once found fascinating. Sing a verse or two of All Creatures Great and Small while she ruminates over this. These
truly are the things that try a man's soul.
... All things bright and beautiful, the Lord God made 'em all....
So I was in the living room watching tv and my mom was like "you need to turn it off and go outside and do something!" because I
like never go outside anymore:) so should I go to my room in spite of her or should I really go outside?
Biblitz replies:
Go for a walk. Mom wants to be alone for awhile but it's very, very difficult for women to say so, esp to whelp(s). Give
her some space. Do unto others .... etc.
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A trace of pleasure or regret
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That I'll remember till the day I die
She
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And make them all my souvenirs
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